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The Secret to Getting Rich Isn’t What You Think

What if everything you’ve been told about building wealth is wrong? Most people believe the key to financial success is working harder, putting in longer hours, and stashing away money in a retirement account for decades. But what if that’s not the best way?

I’ve lived both sides of this equation. And in this article, I’ll break down the shift that changed my entire financial future—so you can apply it, too. If you’d rather watch than read, check out my YouTube video where I walk through this transformation step by step.

The Traditional Path to Wealth

Like many high-income professionals, I took the well-worn path. I went to school, trained as a periodontist, and by the time I finished, I was 30 years old with $300,000 in student loan debt. The plan seemed simple: work hard for the next 40 years, save in a 401(k), and hope that by retirement, I’d have enough to enjoy life.

This is the same formula most people follow—because that’s what we’re taught. You trade your time for money, climb the career ladder, and save whatever’s left over. The problem? It’s a slow process, and it leaves you vulnerable.

The Moment That Changed Everything

At 40 years old, I had a wake-up call. While skiing with my kids, I had an accident that injured my arm. That moment forced me to ask a terrifying question:

What happens if I can’t work?

As a dentist, my hands are everything. If I couldn’t use them, I couldn’t earn an income. That’s when I realized the danger of relying on one paycheck. And I wasn’t alone—so many professionals are trapped in a cycle where their livelihood depends on their ability to work every day.

The Wealthy Think Differently

After my accident, I started studying people who had real financial freedom. What I discovered was simple but life-changing:

The wealthy don’t trade time for money—they buy assets that pay them over and over again.

Instead of working harder, they focus on building passive income streams through investments like real estate or businesses. This allows them to make money whether they’re working or not.

Understanding Assets vs. Liabilities

Most people don’t think about their finances in terms of assets and liabilities, but this one concept can completely shift your mindset:

    
• Assets put money in your pocket
    
• Liabilities take money out of your pocket

Your house? It’s a liability if it’s not generating income. Your car? A liability. The wealthy use their assets to pay for their liabilities. That means instead of working extra hours to afford a new car or vacation, they invest in income-producing assets that cover the cost.

How Many Income Streams Do You Have?

For years, I relied on my dental practice as my only source of income. If I wasn’t working, I wasn’t earning. That also meant long vacations were difficult because I still had to cover overhead costs while I was away.

But when I looked at truly wealthy people, they all had one thing in common: multiple income streams. They weren’t dependent on just one job or business—they had cash flow coming from different investments, allowing them to step away when they wanted.

The Power of Networking

One of the biggest lessons I learned was that who you surround yourself with matters.

For the first 12–15 years of my career, I spent time around other dentists at meetings and conferences. But after my accident, I started networking with people focused on growth, investing, and financial freedom. That’s when opportunities opened up—like buying mobile home parks and RV parks that generate passive income for my family.

If you want to change your financial future, start surrounding yourself with people who think differently about money.

Who, Not How

A book that transformed my thinking was Who Not How. Instead of asking how to build wealth, start asking who can help you get there.

That’s what I did. Instead of figuring out how to buy and manage real estate, I found people who already knew how to do it. Your network will determine your net worth.

The Goal Isn’t Just Money—It’s Time Freedom

Real wealth isn’t just about having money. It’s about having control over your time.

When you build passive income, you get to choose whether you work. You can spend more time with family, travel, volunteer, or start a passion project—all without worrying about money.

Up until now, you might have believed that working hard for decades is the only way to get ahead. But there’s another option—one that allows you to build financial freedom much faster.