For years, Jeff has been honest and upfront about his
fight with brain cancer with the Dentaltown community.
His positive outlook, faith and sense of humor has affected
and inspired thousands of Townies. Too often we honor people
after they are gone. So in recognition of Jeff 's long and
valiant battle, Dentaltown is proud and humbled to present
the following tributes from Jeff 's friends and colleagues.
Dr. Glenn van As: I have been a Dentaltown member
for many years and have kept up with Jeff Massie's
battle against cancer on his thread. I do not consider
myself much of a spiritual person, but I have been continually
moved by Jeff 's candor in dealing with his illness,
his bravery and his love for his family. These
characteristics ring out loud and clear and remind us
that Dentaltown is more than just about cutting teeth.
It is a community of people who each care for one
another. Jeff 's fight against cancer has reminded me
about the priorities in life – family and health. I wish Jeff
the best in his battle and for his family as well.
Dr. Stephen Glass: Jeff, your story on Dentaltown has
been an inspiration to so many. You probably don't even
realize the positive impact you have had on thousands of
dental professionals by being so courageous to share your
journey and battle with all of us. You have truly lived your
signature line quote of scripture. You have been the salt of
the earth and have let your light shine for all of us to see.
You have strengthened my faith and changed my perspective
on life. I have also been truly touched when, with all
the things you have had going, you found the time to see
how I was doing. I also know you have spent a lot of time
checking on others as well. Through all of this you have
asked for us to not worry about you, but to pray for your
wife and your daughter. You are always thinking of other
people even during the hardest times. There is no way we
could ever give you more than you have given us. Thanks
for being such a great friend. Thanks for everything!
Dr. Howard Goldstein: When I first saw the thread
"Request For Prayers," I thought, "Just great, another
thread asking for divine help for some inane reason." But
I was totally wrong. Here was a thread by a humble, religious,
warm human being who was and is enduring a serious
medical problem. In spite of Jeff 's plight, several
things were immediately obvious. One, he has an amazing
sense of humor. Many of his posts have cracked us up.
Two, he never whines about his condition. He is only
concerned about his wife and child. Three, how deeply
religious he is and how much he trusts his Lord. Finally,
it is obvious that he cares so much about others in general
and what a nice guy he is. He inspires thousands of
Townies with his way of coping with this horrible situation.
We are all amazed how he has made it seem not so
horrible. If love from a great deal of people counts for
anything, Jeff has plenty of love coming his way from all
of us. Hang in there, Jeff. We love you.
Dr. Howard Farran: You're a fighter, Jeff! So many
Townies have learned so much more about life from your
posts. I feel blessed to have known you and met you in person!
It seems like yesterday when you visited my home. My
four boys talk about you to this day! You have certainly
lived a full life. Thank you for sharing it with us, Jeff!
Dr. Pavandeep Khaira: I read Jeff 's thread and was
immediately drawn to his humor and his outlook to his illness.
The greatest inspiration is his commitment to his
family despite the emotional trauma he must be going
through. It's easy to say that we're strong individuals, but
one thing I learned is that true strength of character is not
the ability to find inner strength when things are good in
your life, rather to find the strength when hope seems lost.
In all honesty, not only am I touched by Jeff 's outlook but
also his unwavering faith in God. In our religion, we're
taught that we won't always understand the will of God,
but if we accept it then life becomes much sweeter. The
nature of life is such that it's easy to lose sight of the important
things and focus on the materialistic or unimportant.
Jeff occasionally walks into my thoughts and helps center
me on what I should be focused on. Jeff, we have only spoken
fleetingly and have never met, but I thank God for the
lessons you have taught me. Thank you.
Lynn Mawhinney: I have followed Jeff 's journey
from the very beginning. We have never met, but Jeff is
now a part of my family. There is not a day that goes by
that I do not think of and pray for Jeff and his family. I
have been moved and inspired by his graciousness,
determination, strength and most of all by his faith. His
willingness to share his struggles has made me cherish
my family, friends and colleagues all the more. I strive to
do my very best in all things and to see the beauty in
everyday things that surround me and to not allow petty
issues to become consequential in my life. Thank you,
Jeff. Much love and Godspeed.
Dr. Peter Wacko: Jeff has always maintained a positive
attitude and sense of humor throughout. He inspires
me to take things as they come, worry less and not sweat
the small stuff. He is a wonderful human being.
Dr. Mark McClure: Jeff Massie is an inspiration to
thousands of people. Not a day goes by that I don't
think of his situation and the strength and dignity he
has shown throughout his ordeal, and say a prayer for
him and his family. He has truly helped me to focus on
the important things in life. Even though I have not
personally met this great man, I am proud to say I
know him and love him. By any definition, he is a truly
great and inspiring individual. The love he has inspired
is the greatest gift man can receive. God bless you, Jeff,
and your family.

Dr. Matt Garrison: Though I've never met Jeff, his
post in December 2007 hit me like a ton of bricks.
We're about the same age, with kids who are about the
same age. As a Christian, I often wonder how strong my
faith would be if I were in his position. My Sunday
school class has prayed for him since December 2007
and I continue to be asked by classmates about him. I
can only pray to have the strength and faith he has and
thank God. He has been an example for all of us. God
bless you, Jeff and God bless your beautiful family.
Dr. Bradi Boyce: Jeff 's story has touched me to the
core. One thing he's made me become very conscious of
is the time I am able to spend with my family. He has
made me realize how precious my time with my family
and friends really is. He has made me think at the holidays
about spending less time worrying about everything
being perfect and to enjoy the time we have
together. There are no guarantees that there will be
another! He is a very special man and has touched my
heart from a distance.
Dr. Karim Khalife: So few people have the ability
to touch me so deeply without having even met them.
Reading Jeff 's posts makes you feel like you might be
talking with one of the Lord's kindest creations. It seems
that no amount of hardship will stop Jeff from trying to
make those who need it feel better. Every time I read his
posts he just makes me feel the urge to do some good.
Jeff, my esteemed colleague, the story of your illness left
me with a lot of sorrow. May the Lord be with you, and
may He be good to you in a better place, because of all
people, you truly deserve it.
Dr. Phil Zelmanow: I came across the thread Jeff
started quite some time after it started. I spent a wonderful
evening reading the whole thing. It inspired me
more than anything I've come across on Dentaltown.
Jeff 's a special guy; a blessing for all of us who have been
fortunate enough to cross his path.
Dr. Ryan Swain: Jeff 's presence on Dentaltown has
been such a blessing for me. His courage and candor in
the face of personal tragedy has been an incredible
inspiration for many. I've laughed and cried with him
though I only know him through the message boards on
Dentaltown.com. His situation has challenged the way
that I think and I've spent a lot of time talking about
Jeff 's situation with my own family. What I love most
about Jeff 's presence on Dentaltown is that he demonstrates
tremendous peace and has repeatedly shared the
source from which he gets his peace. Many of us have
bonded with Jeff over that. I've never met Jeff in person
but he is an amazing man with whom I'm proud to have
crossed paths. I'm a better person because of him.
Dr. Monique Nadeau: Jeff 's steady, ever-faithful
attitude, and his devotion to his family while they all
endure this long trying ordeal is a real inspiration to me
and to anyone who has gotten to know Jeff through
this thread.
Lisa Weber: I've compared Jeff to Tigger before,
and there's a reason – he exudes energy, vitality and
absolute love of life. He creates his own weather system,
and everyone else is along for the ride. He's the tall guy
on the motorcycle with a girl who adores him riding on
the back. He loves a good joke, especially about politics.
Jeff does not just have faith, Jeff is faith. Since his
diagnosis, he has steadfastly refused to lose that faith.
Through his mission work in Africa and Haiti, and
through his posts on Dentaltown, he has taken us all on
his journey and opened our eyes to the blessings we
have. Through it all he has asked for very
little. He asks for us to keep his wife
Tammy and his precious daughter
Summer in our thoughts and prayers.
He has asked us to smile and laugh
along with him. He has not asked us to
try to walk in his shoes, but rather, to
recognize and embrace the
journey we are on
ourselves. Loved
ones were hugged
a bit tighter because
of Jeff, and the richness
of our lives a bit more evident
because of him. |